It is part of
the human condition to express one’s thoughts about one’s daily life especially
when it comes to in a relationship.Many people have publicly accused of
cheating or infidelity from their partner, and dealt unhappily for years or
months sometimes with this intolerable situation. Surprisingly, a
person never really intends to fall in love, it just happens but when one of the members is victim of suspicious that
could create a panic situation and even challenging. Sometimes a
couple create problem through acts of simple coincidence and compromises after
few wonderful memories from a lifetime. Once this trust is threatened it can
for ever destroy the possibility of any future intimacy and trust. The deeper of
the irony behind closed doors become a lot more
complex when the accusation is surrounded by people this couple knows in
their live but no by a stranger.
Finally, it is
important for two people who accept to live together need
to work and building trust in a relationship. Couples who trust each other have
security and probably feel closer. In a similar fashion, trust on both
sides is important because it is a great sign of friendship where the world
feel like a much better place to live.
ince many decades now, Haiti has encountered many
difficulties in ensuring the security for its Citizens and Foreigners in the
country. For many past years, which is probably the case today, Haiti was
well-known for its high rate of criminality, in addition to being also
well-known for being the poorest country with the most unemployed in the
Western Hemisphere. This high criminality rate is considered by many, experiencing
first-hand the reality of this country and its youth, to be the primary reason
of International Investors’ reluctance to coming and investing in Haiti;
according to those same people, the high criminality rate and the young Haitian
citizen graduated from High school who cannot afford Higher studies are totally
interwoven and interrelated and sorting the latter out will automatically
mitigate the impact of the other. The one-million dollar question that always
comes out is “How comes the criminality in Haiti is linked to the Youth?”
Most of the Northern and Emerging countries have
developed educational and training programs for Youth so that they can
participate in the long run to the development of their country. These
countries believe that investing in human is one of the first step for a
country to take in order to grow economically and also, that investment done in
human at an early age that could be considered between 18-25 years old, in
educating them, would be helpful in order to prevent the young people to turn
to illegal activities because of a feeling of exclusion generated in them; and
it will allow them to be aware earlier of the problems adults are facing so
that they can start thinking and working to find better solutions. At this age,
it is mandatory for a country’s political leaders to focus on capacity
development and education for the Youth due to the fact they can be influenced
easily to any kind of illegal activity and because of their sudden desire, at
that same age, for independency.
The Northern and Emerging countries tag the need for
educating and mentoring young people as priority,
because they recognize how important it is for the stability of a country to
train that age group aforementioned at the most vulnerable stage of a man’s
life where changes are often radical.
Law
school
In Haiti, the largest number of young people who cannot
afford paying school and sometimes cannot eat is from a seemingly second-class,
but this second-class name assigned to them is rather a cover to prevent people
living abroad from seeing and saying that 90% of the Haitian population is poor
and unable to entirely meet their needs. Those people, due to a lack of fund
and income generating activity, have their children ceased with their high school
and sometimes cannot go to University. This situation, excessively dependent on
the response of each to abject situations, often conducts the youngest one into
doing whatever they can, whether good or bad, in order to gain the least to
survive. “But what is it we can do when living in a country where the
responsible people don’t really care about you” what they are constantly
thinking about, so many times these unanswered questions that come to their
mind usually make them turn themselves to criminal activities that they
consider as a making-money-come-easy way.
Income
generating activities for young people
Talking about security, these young people became
dangerous by the simple fact that they are not taken into account by the
elected ones who were supposed to take care of them. These young people that
should normally be at school and University in order to partake to their
country’s development often generate terror when their name are called or said
in the news. They engage themselves in all sorts of illegal activities (such as
robbery, kidnapping, carjacking, drug dealing etc.) with the aim of earning
money in order to live.
In their community, people who do as they say, can be
dwelt by a feeling of security because they have the promise that they will not
be hurt but those who refuse to comply with their words, can be severely
punished, killed or feeling themselves forced to leave the neighborhood (which
will, as well, be made impossible because these same young terrorists will not
let them to). In most places where such situation is occurring, Police forces
cannot make any intervention and projects, in order to develop these
communities, are either unable to be implemented or fail while being
implemented.
Some project implementers have experienced major loss
during and after projects implementation in certain communities, mostly
equipments loss that were stolen by those young people to be sold
after.
Having a job is important in one’s life. A job provides
us with the money necessary to earn a living. Working and bringing in a steady
paycheck provides the ability to feed one’s family, as well as provide housing,
clothing, and other day-to-day necessities. Having a job provides the money to
work toward an education, and having an education allows an individual to take
better care of their family and allows the “Pursuit of Happiness” (“The Declaration of Independence”
ushistory.org/declaration/document. 16 June 2011) in following the American
Dream.
Having a good education puts someone in a position to get a better job. A
person with a high school diploma may only be considered for a lower paying
job, like working at McDonalds or any fast food restaurant. However, someone
with a higher education may be considered for a better position with a higher
salary and more benefits. With a professional job it is possible to make
advancements in lifestyle and standard of living. This also makes tuition for
additional courses more affordable. Having a degree and a job often opens the
opportunity to earn advanced degrees. Having a steady income enables the worker
to feel like a valuable part of the household. Probably the most important
aspect of working and having money is the paramount importance of feeding one’s
family. Having good and healthy meals can help the family to remain healthy.
Working may also provide the opportunity for upward movement to home ownership.
By saving a little bit from each paycheck, it is possible to get enough money
for a down payment on a house. This is one of the most important ways to change
someone’s lifestyle.
When a person has a steady job, money
starts coming in and action takes place, like planning to purchase the basics
needed and extend the budget to buy better quality items for the house. These
might include furniture, new clothes and a car if needed. It also enables one
to help pay bills, reduce household debt and plan for the future. Often it is
fun to go shopping at several stores, and spend money along the way. For this
reason, and others it is necessary for everyone to have a job. A job also makes
for a comfortable lifestyle which is essential in pursuing happiness. According
to the article: Is Happiness Actually
Important? “On average happy people are more successful than unhappy people
at both work and love. They get better performance reviews, have more
prestigious jobs, and earn higher salaries”.(Christine Carter) It is obvious that
happiness is related to success. When one has a job, things work good in the
household kids are happy because they can get what they ask for, like toys,
going out to playgrounds, buying gifts. They enjoy having a birthday party
organized or any kind of activities created for the children, such as sports or
music lessons. Additionally, working allows the family to consider other
activities, such as planning to go on vacation or attend a family reunion,
which might also include travel.
Happiness starts with a good
conversation in the house, reduces any emotional stress and increases chances
for success. Therefore, having a job not only helps people to pursue happiness
but also builds positive family relationships by removing financial worries and
stress from the family. According
to Charles D. Kerns, PHD, MBA
. happiness comes from work experiences that yield positive emotions, positive
thoughts, and/or positive images in people. Positive emotions in particular
have the capacity to “build and broaden” people’s positive response repertoire. People who approach tasks with positivity have been found
to be more productive, creative and resilient.
Earning a living is one of the most
important things in society. Having a job gives a person the financial ability
to provide for their family, manage household expenses and consider extras like
vacations or travel. It also makes it possible to consider home ownership, which
is a main part of the American Dream. And finally, the person with a good job
possesses self-confidence and well-being by contributing to the household and
society, and this brings happiness.
Garry Pamphile is attending Goodwin
College now in Criminal Justice (Master’s degree) in Connecticut. He studied of
Social Work 1996/2000 at
Faculty of Human-Sciences in Haiti; graduated in Basic Shift Management at Hamburger University of Chicago, Illinois
(Boston extension) in 2009. Certified in Medical Terminology, Electrocardiogram (EKG), and Phlebotomy (CBC) Complete Blood
Count in 2010 at Connecticut Training Center, East Hartford, Connecticut. Working
at Apple Rehab in Middletown, Connecticut.2008-to present, worked at Dash/
Health System (Haiti 2002-2008).
Worked at Ministers social Affairs
with Street Children age 12-18 (Haiti 2000-2002).
Drawing from his own life experiences
andexperimentation, Garry wrote many texts and
commentaries from his profound wisdom where many people used them as reference. With the guidance of his teachers, he wrote “Living
in America, Speaking different Language, Creating Organization, La realite
sociologique des Haitiens vivant a l’etranger, Float of Anger” etc. Garry is looking to the future with
enthusiasm. As a positive man, he likes people-oriented individual who enjoys
contributing to a successful team. He’s working hard daily to make a positive
impact on his environment. He has no limit he is simply a citizen of the word.
“Je ne suis d’aucune culture
D’aucune humanité.Seulement
Je tremble quand l’enfant pleure,
Et je tombe quand l’amour glisse”. (Nietzsche)
